Fuck her in the eye

They carry more power to others and to ourselves. From my experience, no one will love your intelligence if you treat them like crap. Give it time to grow and solidify inside you. If not, what if this was a case of "this guy is creeping me out, why won't he stop staring? Watch the TED talk on Seduction, some girl from Cuba does it and judging from your experience she's right. You're doing it to cope with the discomfort of staring into a woman's eyes and thinking, I want to fuck you.